See qualified therapist in-person in the SF Bay Area or Telehealth throughout California.
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Relationship Counseling
Relationship Counseling addresses Dating, Marriage, finding Right Relationship and experiencing more Love. Overcoming worry or fears of failure, rejection and standing up for yourself when facing conflict.
Highly Effective Practical Tools
To Strengthen Your Loving Relationship
Empathy Tool Kit Provided
Compassion-Resilience Spoken Here
You are seeking more joy.
You wish to be loved, even cherished and included in this great adventure – called life.
I see the best in you.
Ilene Wolf, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for 30 years
Offices conveniently located in
San Francisco Bay Area and Marin
415.420.3619
What Clients Say…
“Ilene is a Rockstar of a therapist. Both my wife and I have seen her and we agree we have seen more progress on issues in the few meetings we had with her than with all the meetings we had with several other therapists.” ~ Steve L.
“Thank you so very much for your clarity and compassion; You are, Ilene yourself, a most exceptional, seasoned clinician.” ~ Eric Greenleaf, Ph.D., Milton Erickson Institute
“Ilene brought monumental changes to my life and has helped me deal with some issues that were never really helped by previous therapists.” ~ G.S.
“Ilene sets the bar for therapists. She’s a lighthouse for those who feel stuck, lost, or alone. ~ Che M.
“She really does care, and it feels great to be on the receiving end of that. If you want someone who gives it her all, who’s a true champion for her clients, you’ve got to meet her.” ~ Andrew K.
“Ilene is not only a skilled and seasoned therapist, but also has a huge capacity for compassion and empathy, and to grasp the essential questions and essence of her clients’ needs in her unique style of therapy.” ~ M.G.
Improve every aspect of your life- on the sooner side.
Empowering you with highly effective practical tools and relationship counseling to create a phenomenal life. Life can work for you, I can show you exactly how.
Utilizing Stanford research, CBT, The Buddhist Practice of Loving Kindness and Effective Communication Tools, you can start feeling better today. For the past 30 years, I have helped 100s of individuals, couples and families. Group Therapy is also Available. Cultivating Authentic Connection.
If money or time is a factor: Highly Effective Brief Solution-Focused Therapy is also available.
Nothing gets done without doing it!
Anxiety
Fear of Rejection and Conflict
Procrastination and Perfectionism
PTSD, Insomnia, Phobias and OCD

Children and Teens
Academic Performance
Dealing with Bullies/ Making Friends
Defiant and Oppositional Kids
CBT-Cognitive Therapy
Interactive Experiential Therapy
Brief Solution-Focused Therapy
Weekend Intensives for Immediate Relief
“The parts where I am absent is where my past still has a hold on me. That absence needs to be illuminated.” ~ Thomas Hübl
We cannot change that which we are not engaged with…
You can let go of experiences that have hurt you that you would like to leave behind.
Promoting Deeper Awareness, Health & Healing for 30 Years with 100s of Individuals, Couples and Families
Resilience Spoken Here
Ilene Wolf’s Blog – Poems, Musings & Letters
On Joy and Sorrow by Kahlil Gibran
Then a woman said, Speak to us of Joy and Sorrow. And he answered: Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears. And how else can it be? The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the...
What Else Is Possible?
“The moon and sun are travelers through eternity. Even the years wander on. Whether drifting through life on a boat or climbing toward old age leading a horse, each day is a journey, and the journey itself is home.” ― Basho
Mary Oliver reads “Wild Geese”
Wild Geese | Mary Oliver You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting. You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves. Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine....