What Clients, Colleagues and Students are saying about Ilene Wolf,
a Leader and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for 30 years

Nothing short of amazing

“I recently had the pleasure of experiencing a workshop with Ilene Wolff and she is She is a strong, bright and clear teacher and therapist who creates a lot of depth, safety, and connection in a very short period of time. Everyone in our group opened up, connected easily and experienced a great sense of joy in Ilene’s presence through her skilled facilitation. I highly recommend working with her.”
– Lorraine Platt, LMFT

A lighthouse for those who feel stuck

“Ilene sets the bar for therapists. I met her in August 2019 and as my first therapist, she helped me untangle issues that were fundamental to my growth spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. She really pays attention and on an intuitive level knows what you truly need to hear and or do in life, even when at the time it may seem like the hardest thing. She’s a lighthouse for those who feel stuck, lost, and or alone. She draws out the strength and courage out of people that feel weak or can’t seem to find it for themselves. She’s amazing and worth the expense. If you’re on here contemplating about her, this is your sign to get started with her!! ”
– CheRima

A True Champion for Her Clients

Spend just a minute with Ilene, and you’ll be able to sense her genuine compassion. She really does care, and it feels great to be on the receiving end of that. If you want someone who gives it her all, who’s a true champion for her clients, you’ve got to meet her. I highly recommend Ilene.
– Andrew K.

Highly intelligent

“Ilene Wolf is highly intelligent, highly creative, energetic, and charismatic.”
– George Taylor, MFT

Compassion and in depth experience

“I really admire Ilene for her unconditional support towards me. Ilene has a very good heart. She is very respectful by nature, and she has complete compassion and in depth experience. She is such a talented person; she shows people how to work with anxiety and anger, how to rely on communication tools to successfully address bullying in all walks of life.”
– Mousumi

Empowers, guides and supports her clients

“Ilene Wolf, MFT, RDT/BCT embodies all the qualities of a great therapist: compassion, excellent communication skills, and a unique ability to empower, guide and support her clients in discovering more peace, ease and freedom in their lives.”

– K.O., somatic counselor, businessman

A safe supportive environment where I felt comfortable

“… the leaders quickly facilitated a safe supportive collegial environment where I felt comfortable sharing my deepest concerns. “
– Joanne Davis, MFT

A Rockstar of a therapist

“Ilene is a Rockstar of a therapist. Both my wife and I have seen her and we agree we have seen more progress on issues in the few meetings we had with her than with all the meetings we had with several other therapists. She quickly helps you see deeper layers of your issues and teaches you new tools to have better results. We have a three hour drive to see her and she is really worth the hassle of the drive.”

– Steve L.

Made a critical difference in my life

“I have tried several therapists. Ilene’s sessions made a critical difference in my life. Ilene cares deeply and helped me build trust back into my relationships. Ilene has helped my family beyond the regular measures. I recommend Ilene Wolf, MFT, RDT/BCT, I know she can help where most others fail.”
– R. A.

A leader in the Marin Therapist Community

“For many years I have known of Ilene as a fixture and leader in the Marin Therapist Community. Recently I have had a chance to consult with her- I am amazed how fast she can get to the root of a problem, faster than almost any therapist I have seen! Ilene has the courage to honor and tackle complex issues and handle them directly – with huge compassion. She combines the absolute essential attributes of a highly skilled therapist: empathy, expert clinical knowledge, and creativity. She really knows her stuff which inspires immense confidence in her clients to change and grow.”

– R.E.

Compassion and empathy

“Ilene is not only a skilled and seasoned therapist, but also has a huge capacity for compassion and empathy. I have been impressed with Ilene’s capacity to grasp the essential questions and essence of her clients’ needs in her unique style of therapy.”

– M.G., school counselor and psychotherapist

I would heartily recommend Ilene to any new parents out there

“My husband and I had a baby 7 months ago that, as you can understand, brought many changes into our life. We felt that speaking to someone about all these changes and trying to work through some of the issues that started appearing in our relationship was the positive and proactive approach to handling all that was going on! We both felt an instant connection and felt that Ilene perceived to the heart of some of our issues fairly quickly. While this is still new and fresh for us, we are seeing some positive changes and are looking for to additional discussions that will help us both grow in our personal relationship as well as the bond with our new baby girl. I would heartily recommend Ilene to any new parents out there that just need some additional hand holding while they wade through what can be some pretty rocky waters!”
– Cynthia T.

Down to earth and clear

“Ilene is probably the most natural genuine therapist I have ever met. She is down to earth and clear. She would not miss what cannot be missed -that obvious truth that can easily be missed by so many others. Her clarity reflects the truth within the person, who needs help right away.”
– M.K., chiropractor and nutritionist

A new level of compassion and empathy

“I felt challenged in ways that allowed me to experience a new level of compassion and empathy with my children. “

– J. L.

Wise, intuitive, compassionate, and supportive

“Ilene is the best therapist and I feel incredibly lucky to have found her, almost by chance! She genuinely cares for her patients, knowing when to challenge them to grow and when to support them to heal. Besides her incredible compassion, she has brought a sense of humor to our sessions that highlights her personality and is perfect for the care I need. She is wise, intuitive, compassionate, and supportive. Would absolutely recommend!”

– Jocelyn S.

Deep, kind, smart and fun

“Deep, kind, smart and fun, Ilene is a great therapist to turn to when life becomes challenging, complicated or when you need someone to help you navigate life’s inevitable changes or demands that you grow as a person. If you’re struggling in your relationships or depression and anxiety are making life way too difficult, Ilene can be a great ally in your journey to a better life.”

– Dave T.

I experienced profound changes

“I experienced profound changes, in my relationship with my husband and the people I work with. Nothing short of amazing. “
– S.G.

She can help you turn quickly things around

“Ilene brought monumental changes to my life and has helped me deal with some issues that were never really helped by previous therapists. If I have a friend in a dark place, I would (and I have) unhesitatingly send them to Ilene. What surprised me was how quickly she can help you turn things around. I don’t really understand how she does it, but she is very active rather than just listening.”

– GS

Monumental changes

“Over the years, I have turned to Ilene who has helped me navigate emotionally charged issues: my divorce, my relocation, and a fabulous new marriage! Thanks to Ilene’s wise counsel, my closest relationships in my family remain intact- despite serious conflict and crisis! Ilene is compassionate when it comes to the real issues and gently introduces solutions.”

– C.B. freelance writer

Spoke directly to our hearts

“Ilene Wolf, LMFT spoke directly to our hearts at the monthly meeting of Soroptimist International and the whole experience was a real treat! She spoke about the anxiety we all experience and feel around conflict, and how compassion, forgiveness and kindness can melt it away.”

– Marla Hamilton, Co-President Soroptimist International of Marin County

Insightful, talented and quick

“Ilene Wolf is insightful, talented and quick. I attended a class she runs exclusively for therapists, called “Getting to The Heart of the Matter.” I’ve never seen anyone so quickly identify the source of a problem and instantly understand the path to healing. This workshop allows you to bring to life your inner drama and rewrite your life’s “script,” with the support of the group. You’ll bring to life relationships, recruit allies and heal age-old problems while retrieving the most loving and healthy parts of yourself. This is absolutely one of the most rewarding and effective therapy classes I have ever attended – and it’s fun. I highly recommend it!”

– Primo L., CHT, MH